11 reasons we’re really missing restaurants right now

Remember when you could just wander into a restaurant, sit down, and get fed? We miss it too.

At Platinum Skies, many of our retirement living locations have extensive communal spaces and bistro facilities where you can enjoy a coffee with friends and a wide-selection of nutritious meals. We can’t wait to re-open these facilities and are awaiting new health and safety guidelines.

Here are just a few reasons why we’re craving restaurants more than ever…

1. Someone else comes up with the menu

Lockdown has become one endless game of Ready, Steady, Cook. Trying to rustle up meal after meal after meal from whatever you grabbed on the last weekly, stressful, socially-distanced dash around the supermarket, has become exhausting. You’ve just sorted dinner, and it’s suddenly breakfast again, and your family members are ungratefully asking for something other than toast. To have a list of options and choices, for you all to be able to eat different things – but together, at the same time – cooked by a professional, that you can just point at and then it arrives, seems like utopia.

2. And someone else washes up

If you have to stack the dishwasher, or wash up, one more time…

3. It’d be nice to be able to see your mates without having to BBQ in the rain

It’s still only the beginning of June, BBQ season is still in its early days, but you’d trade a rainy, socially-distanced barbie for dinner in a bricks and mortar restaurant in a second. Even faster if it came with a cocktail menu, too.

4. No matter how hard you’ve tried, it’s impossible to recreate your favourite dishes at home

Sure, you can have a good go at the ramen from your local Japanese restaurant, or a herbed rack of lamb from that gastro pub you love, but will it really be as good as the original? Nope. Don’t kid yourself.

5. You miss being asked something as simple as, ‘Still or sparkling?’

What an absolute luxury that was. It’s been ‘tap’ on a loop for months and months now.

6. Napkins have become a thing of the past

A square of kitchen roll doesn’t quite cut it. Same goes for someone offering to take your coat. Or bringing you a basket of bread. And remember how we took for granted being given a chocolate or mint with the bill? You’d give anything for such a thoughtful, edible gesture now.

7. Not being able to support your local restaurants is tough

Walking past your favourite restaurant all boarded up and sad looking is really upsetting, especially if the team you’re so used to seeing hasn’t been able to offer takeout, so you can’t even support them that way. Spotting the shuttered windows of a joint you’d always meant to visit, but had never gotten around to, is just as galling. What if it’s unable to reopen?

8. Takeaways are actually making you miss restaurants even more

Being able to order takeout from restaurants you’d normally sit in, can oddly increase your longing for the physical act of going there in person. Picking a seat, being indecisive over the menu, people-watching through the window, spilling your water, saying, ‘Go on then, one more won’t hurt’, when the server asks if you want a bottle of wine – this stuff matters. Unpacking tubs and eating off your own plates is good, but offers only a fraction of the joy of the real experience (however happy you are to at least be eating restaurant-standard food).

9. You could really do with a proper pudding

What you’d give for your local pub’s sticky toffee pud drenched in custard, a chocolate fondant all oozy in the middle, or a cheesecake that hasn’t come from the chiller section of the supermarket.

10. There’s a special buzz in a restaurant

It’s not just the extravagance of being cooked for that makes restaurants so wonderful, it’s the whole experience. The perfect mood lighting, the atmospheric chatter, the joy of having a starter, main AND dessert, the treat of being taken care of – it’s delicious, far beyond the food alone.

11. Splitting the bill

Yep, you even miss arguing over who had more wine, who didn’t have dessert and getting your phone calculators out. Oh, to split the bill, and then be able to hug each other goodbye on the way out…